Freedom of Muslim Family


by Kholda Naajiyah


Muslim family ideally lived happily without a matter of meaning. But there is just a pebble of the happiness. You know, a household trip between two different people, certainly not out of trouble. Especially plus children of various characters, a family full of challenges.
Here is an obstacle that made the family not enjoy the true independence:
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1. Deafness
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Although every day meets, every day interacts, does not guarantee communication is free. Something isn't delivered. There's nothing to be straightforward about. I don't know because the feeling of doubt, fear, shame, prestige or thought " Ah, at least know the same."
But the independent family should be the communication of complete transparency. There are no secrets among family members. There's nothing to hide. There's nothing to be afraid of. But, the character of each different family member, causing this communication is sometimes hopeless.
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2. Affected grass
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There is no way to compare with another family's life. Javanese saying, life is integrity sinawang (seeing each other). We see people, they say life is better, but we've also seen how good others live. . It never ends.
The feeling of comparing and feeling less fortunate than this other family is what caused the life to be entrenched in unhappiness. Finally not free to be a happy family. But should be grateful for what it is. Remove yourself from looking higher. Let the feeling of relief, free of heart disease.
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3. Rule order
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Families are free of trouble is an order to run the discipline of household rules. It's not an easy thing. It's even difficult to keep the rules in the household discipline. Mothers especially, often complain to the behavior of husbands or children who are not ordered to put things for example. I don't know. I don't know. So the children are not in order to run programs at home, such as learning schedules, memorization, plays, etc. It takes cooperation and awareness to make houses neat, clean, comfortable and make a fit. The key is discipline.
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4. There is no democracy
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Someone is building a democratic household, with the definition of freeing the children determines the attitude, choices and arguments. Muslim household is not like that. Children are not liberated, but directed. They don't have a life experience. Understanding is still losing far more than a parent. About appetites may be free, but not for the paradigm of thinking.
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5. Financial free
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Who doesn't want to be free of financial problems? Must've had a dream that way. Where the family no longer hampered all his needs in matters of matter. Not meant to be rich, but the feeling is enough, qonaah and grateful for the given provision, at least will help the free feeling of misery.
In addition to understanding, that is doses of doses. Each one according to the best of God, not the most. ' cause you have the test, too. Sometimes the merits of their merits. So don't be stunned that more, it will be happy. But less, be grateful to feel free from feeling less.
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6. Free of sin
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A free Muslim family is a member of his family can escape from sin every day. Worship without being told. Charity without compulsion. Running with pleasure. Interact with family members, relatives and neighbors without inflicting friction. Hard, for sure. But it worked. (Kholda)

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