Child Psychology



Pick-up, foster child (child) is found in nusantara cultures. Says that there was something lying on the ground that wasn't clear who owned it then by the person who saw it and was interested and taken The use of the lift in the adopted child explains that the boy was under the ground and there was a movement taking it and raised it up Either in the pick or lift, implied that someone is riding the position of hina into mulya, from under to upload.

In the nusantara tradition, at a minimum in the area with betawi cultures, the indigenous, parahiangan, Java, Batak, there is a form of this First there is a child by both his parents because of poor or other reason to be put in front of someone who thinks they're looking for a child and will give this child affection. Secondly, there are couples who don't have a child to come to someone who is pregnant or having children who are still babies and reveal their desire to take care of In the second case my children had the traditions of the boy put in a basket by his real parents, then abandoned, and then his foster parents took it. Then I'm observing the term " Foster child " or " the adopted son " reflects the true events.

On the side of the adoptive parents, there's some kind of foster type. The first foster parents wish to acquire ansk, and make the child adopt as her child, even look the same as her child. The two foster parents who have taken the child as a fisherman, so when they have children, his behaviour has changed and less attention and compassion for the foster child.

What happened to the foster child? The most vulnerable thing in the foster child is the theme associated with self esteem / self worth / self-esteem. Although the adoptive parents are very close to his origins, there are other parties that open it. When the first child knew that he was a foster child, the emotion that often appeared was "disappointed, sad, angry, upset, embarrassed". it wasn't easy for them to handle this feeling. At that time they need awards, need nurturing, touch, care, and full attention.

What's the cost of foster care? Depending on the readiness of patience and the intention of adoptive parents. The adoptive parents want to have a child, he tries to treat his adopted child like a child born from her own womb, willing to accept the uniqueness of a child without memepermasalahkannya, and guide the child to find the thing that makes it industry, evolving and Even though I had a little chance to meet this type of adoptive parents.

On the other side there's an innocent foster parents when you have a foster child. It qualifies. Foster parents don't rarely see a child as a burden as a child who needs to gain parenting and compassion. Foster relationships with foster kids aren't so good, so the foster kids have a low self-esteem, and it's hard to be personal and tough.

The struggle of the children finds himself, raising his confidence, it is remarkable. Terlebiih for the foster children who are on his way to know the real parents, and be able to compare life, dear love, care between his parents and his foster parents Lack of explanation, the life of the child with his own mind that is not necessarily true, mind-pkiran diatorsi around "how mlangnya I", make less of the adopted children show the symptoms of self-interest of social life, and look at the public is not To be trusted.

From fraternization with the friends who were adopted, I found it really their struggle to find yourself, comfortable with yourself and able to find the best thing for yourself wasn't easy. Some of these people's struggle is with "Unfinished business" in the past, especially in childhood and teens. There was a struggle for adulthood, especially when the foster parents and parents passed away. It's not uncommon for them to get an unfair treatment, lose the parental rights of a real parent, and the and of the inheritance of the adoptive parents.

It is not easy to be adopted, and it is not easy to be a foster parent.

Even forgiveness forgiveness

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